We are who we are

...and the interjection of a thought or an opinion can never change that. Nor should it play on our weaknesses and cause us to feel insecure about our own person.

All through my life I have heard myself and others mutter the phrase "I don't care what they think." Most likely to soothe our own bruised ego about something said that was not in our favor. Maybe just to ensure someone you really DO NOT care and to drop it. Seems as if acknowledging it is as good as CARING what they think. But I am a critic of any and all things human.

Discovering yourself can be as easy as shutting out the thoughts or even thoughts that you think they are having. What was that? You know, when you think someone has a certain opinion on you that may be totally 100% incorrect. Some may call it paranoia, I call it instinct. Although it can be a horrible habit, to be neurotic about other peoples ideas and thoughts on yourself. Look at main stream marketing and trends. People molding themselves because of what other people are THINKING.

Our own thoughts on other people are completely irrelevant too. It gives us some sort of comfort with that persons existence in our lives. Other than that, it matters not what we say or think. They are who they are and that is THEIR responsibility. Not mine. Maybe humans are just bored with life, and we create this ideas and gossip because we can. Why else do we do anything in life? If it is not a survival technique, we simply just do it.

If people stopped "DOING" what would we talk about. What would we think that they were thinking if we were doing nothing about them trying not to think about us thinking so we could all do nothing? - CEASE TO EXIST

We are who we are. Be it!